Everyone has wondered at some point in their life “Is my crush attracted towards me too’’? It’s a valid question, even if it is asked with such overwhelming desperation.
Loving someone who you’re not sure loves you back can be a nerve-wracking experience.
When you feel attracted to someone do they feel it too?
But there are subtle hints, cracks in the nuance of human emotion that hint mutual attraction. Here is a list of them.
Prolonged Eye Contact
One of the commonest identifiers of mutual attraction is prolonged eye contact.
When someone is curious about you or thinks about you all the time, they often gaze at you with this piercing and intense look. Sometimes, it even borders into creepiness.
But, at the end of the day, it just means that the person staring at you intently is really into you and awaiting you to ask them out.
A little too friendly behaviour
Well, there’s friendly behaviour, and then there’s a little too friendly behaviour. The latter, most often than not, has a hidden meaning.
If someone is a little too friendly with you, it means that they want you to be more than just friends with you.
They might make jokes or say the weirdest of crap to get your attention because they like you, and want you to acknowledge their presence.
Sure, they might do others a favour or two or have a sober conversation with them, but when they are with you, they always do a little extra and treat you like you’re special and unique.
Nervousness during conversing is another huger give-away. If someone stutters or gulps continuously or catches their breath while talking to you, it means that your presence unnerves them, which is always a sign of mutual attraction.
I mean, come on, they have no reason to fear you. You do not intimidate them, and yet they portray this uncanny behaviour? Well, it’s because their heart rate elevates, and their throat runs dry, both of which signal attraction
Willingness to spend a lot of Time
Some people love our company. They always call us whenever they need some help or want to hang out casually.
But when someone, other than a friend or a family member, especially a potential partner wants to revel in our company all the time, it means something entirely different.
It means that they like spending time with you because they fancy you.
They would rather sit in silence with you than watch a movie or go out with friends and have a grand time because they consider you more important than “just any other friend”.
They most probably have feelings for you that they’re not ready to reveal just yet. Maybe they’re waiting for you to make the first move.
Whatever the case is, they are irresistibly attracted to you. You’d be a fool not comprehend that.
So, if you’re having doubts if someone is attracted to you or not, look for the subtle behavioural clues, and you will get your answer.