The most emotionally difficult stage of the twin flame relationship is twin flame separation. During this stage, one twin becomes a chaser while the other becomes a runner.
For this stage to come to a close, the twin flame runner needs to experience enlightenment.
If you’re the chaser, then you might be wondering what is taking your runner so long. Luckily, there are some things you can do to speed up the process.
Unenlightened Twin Flames Run
If you’re reading this, then you are probably already knowledgable about the twin flame experience and spiritual living in general.
Unfortunately, because of this your twin flame will probably be the opposite.
Twin flame runners run because they do not recognise, understand or want to believe in the twin flame connection. Until they experience enlightenment – their own spiritual awakening – they will instinctively try to distance themselves from this strange new phenomenon.
Running and Chasing is a perfectly natural process that happens to nearly everyone, but that doesn’t make it any less painful.
Fortunately, it can make it easier to deal with the heartache you feel from their absence.
Helping Your Twin Flame Runner Towards Enlightenment
There are several ways you can help your twin flame runner towards enlightenment.
Use The Shared Soul Energy
You could meditate with your soul energy connection, which connects twin flames to each other. This is a secure energetic connection, and anything you send over it will reach your twin flame.
However, being too pushy with this can have the opposite effect, so use it to check in and be a gentle reminder of what they could have.
Mutual Paths To Enlightenment
You should also work on your own shortcomings.
While your twin flame runner may have succumbed to fear of the unknown and emotional vulnerability, you are not perfect either. The twin flame relationship foundation has formed with mutual self-improvement, so doing your part will subconsciously help them to do theirs.
Project Positive Emotions
What you absolutely shouldn’t do is wallow in self-pity.
The urge is natural and human, but you should try to resist self torture. Twin flames are very keyed in to each other’s emotions, even at a distance, so your wallowing will only slow down their awakening and enlightenment.
You can use this to your advantage, however.
Knowing that your twin flame runner will experience (in some fashion) the emotions you are yourself experiencing, you have a chance to bring them back with positive emotions.
By living optimistically and with a smile on your face, spending time around people you love and generally living life happily and healthily, you will work wonders for your twin flame runner’s sense of fear and apprehension over the twin flame relationship.
Runner Enlightenment Takes Time
There is no set time frame for twin flame runner enlightenment. Twin flame reunion takes a different amount of time on a different path for everybody. You must be patient.
Though this might be frustrating, you should know that the twin flame relationship always progresses at the right pace for the twin flames involved.
Show patience, not frustration.
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